According to the film, 8 million North Americans spend more than 11 hours a week – each – pursuing sex online.Having recently tried to find good cybersex myself, I see why it's taking them so long. In the olden days, you could find chat rooms where adults bantered, flirted and seduced one another in a supportive community.

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Another, a companion from my old chat room, says that swinger site Adult Friend Finder has "OK" online communities, although not as good as we were used to.

But I would expect a premium site with almost 16 million members to have at least one interesting chat room, wouldn't you?

To me, porn and cybersex are such completely different animals, pursued for different reasons, that lumping them together doesn't give us any real answers about what people actually find addictive.

We've been talking about that in the forum, too.