MORE: What Guys Really Think of Texting The reason women get so frustrated is that they expect men to experience relationships the same way they do.She wants to hear from him during the day because that makes her feel cared for and even when she’s at work, she can’t help but think about why he hasn’t texted just to say hi or see how her day is going. You Think It Means He Doesn’t Care Men communicate differently than women do, and they usually talk for the sake of achieving some sort of a goal or making a plan.Most women can do this, men typically can’t (at least not the ones with demanding jobs).A guy may start out texting you all day, no matter how crazy his day is, but that will only happen in the early stages of a relationship and simply isn’t sustainable for the longterm.

And as many men come to realize, that’s easier said than done. And we measure other people against a yardstick determined by our own personal codes of conduct. I’ve been guilty of waiting with baited breath for my phone to make that beloved ding, I’ve played Text Detective, I’ve endured the agonizing pain of a stomach twisted in knots and a mind demanding to know: Why is he taking so long to write back? Why haven’t I heard from him today, isn’t he thinking about me? Why are his answers so short and vague, is he not into me anymore? Why did he initiate a conversation and then just disappear? We Just Don’t Get It Reality isn’t absolute, it’s created based on our own experiences and how we interpret them.If two female friends were sitting on a coach not talking, it would be because they were in a fight! Fear At the heart of why girls get into such a tizzy over the whole texting issue is fear.In sum, when a guy doesn’t respond or gives quick, short responses, what it really means is … The fear that this guy isn’t really interested, that he will hurt her, that he’s leading her on or is trying to get something out of her.Whether the person ghosting blocks, ignores or completely cuts off the other person in the platonic or romantic relationship without any explanation. So here’s how to deal with those ugly ghosts and come out on top. He hasn’t texted you in two days, but up until his sudden drop off, he would text you throughout the evening. At this point, he hasn’t answered your last text of ‘hoping all is well on his end,’ and you’d like to meet up again. Give it a day or two, but there’s no harm in calling him out.You went on more than one date with the guy and you seem to have instant chemistry. Maybe he won’t respond but at least he’ll know you’re not completely oblivious and that you value your time!Men primarily gain their sense of worth through their ability to have an impact on the world, from their ability to be “winners.” So in the context of texting and relationships, a woman’s head is always in the relationship, even when she’s at work.I remember times when I would be at work doing what needed to be done and G-chatting all day long with a guy I was seeing.Lucky for you, I’ve been taking notes from every texting e-mail I receive to decipher the common pitfalls that prevent men from meeting up with women.They are: Be bold, let loose, and go for the date already! — Want my personal 1-on-1 help to implement what you’ve just learned?Have some really cute pictures of him in your photo album? Before people start asking who that dude is, and before your photo album gets too full, just delete it all. Few moments have single men more excited then getting a girl’s number.For instance, if a girl likes a guy she may want to text frequently.If this guy doesn’t text her often, she assumes it must mean he doesn’t really like her because when she likes someone she would never, , leave them hanging.